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Identity

There are some abuses that completely take away your identity. You do not lose your identity. It is painfully ripped from your soul until all that’s left is but a shell of who you used to be. You don’t have dreams anymore. Hopes, desires….what even are those? You’re just surviving the best you can. Trying…

Demisexuality

One thing that I really wish would have been discussed more when I was younger was sexuality. But growing up in the southern US, in a heavily homophobic, ultra conservative, fundamentalist Christian society it was not something you discussed. You were not allowed to think or be anything other than heteronormative. I’ve always known I…

Pretending

One of the biggest things I find that makes healing difficult for me is the pretending. The masking and trying to be normal so I don’t push people away. Because happy people are the people that are wanted. The people with the big smiles and positive energy. And you see it everywhere. In the “good…